Benefits with Gavin de Becker & Associates

Shake It Off: Boosting Your Mood

Have you ever had a bad mood you just couldn't shake? Everyone feels grouchy or irritable some days, but a bad mood or major mood swings that go on too long may signal a bigger problem. The good news is that certain healthy habits can help you boost your mood.

"Some people are more moody than other people. Normal mood actually varies from person to person," explains Dr. Carlos Zarate, chief of the National Institutes of Health's (NIH's) mood disorders group. That's because we all have different "temperaments," or combinations of personality traits that are biologically based. These are fairly stable over time.

"Considerable research shows that people really differ in their basic temperament," says Dr. Maria Kovacs, an NIH-funded psychologist at the University of Pittsburgh. "There are some people who temperamentally are always in a 'good' mood, and there are people who are temperamentally always in a 'bad' mood."

For example, Zarate says, some people don't seem to be fazed no matter what happens. Others worry about minor things and tend to overblow them. People who have a more negative temperament tend to have a higher risk for mood and anxiety disorders.

Changing Moods

It's not only temperament that affects how you feel each day. Daily habits that affect your ability to manage stress—like diet, exercise, sleep, or how much alcohol you drink—play an important role, too.

"If you address those factors—have good diet, good exercise, good sleep–wake habits, regular activities, routines, and try to disconnect from work and other stressors—those do have beneficial effects on mood and keeping you healthy," Zarate says.

Other biological factors can affect your mood too, like hormones. Women may experience shifts in hormones during their menstrual cycles, pregnancy, and menopause that cause mood changes. Men can have decreases in testosterone as they age, which have been linked to depression.

Certain medical conditions, such as a vitamin deficiency, can make you feel "down" or lack energy. Mental health conditions like depression and bipolar disorder can also cause you to feel very sad and have low energy.

Other mental health conditions can cause mood issues as well—for example, anxiety disorders, obsessive compulsive disorder, and personality disorders.

It's okay once in a while for people not to have a good mood, Zarate explains. "Moods that fluctuate occasionally are a normal thing. It's when it's combined with other symptoms—like significant distress and/or impairment of function or relationships—that it becomes an issue."

People may not know when their mood has become a problem. "Friends and family members should be open and honest with each other and let them know what they're seeing," he says, "because it can lead to strain on family relationships, other relationships, or work issues."

Bouncing Back

"Mood is a normal part of life, and having emotions is a normal part of life," Kovacs says. "Sometimes you feel more negative than other times. That's not necessarily bad." Kovacs studies the strategies people use to repair their mood when feeling down. Her team and others have shown that what you do when feeling down can boost your mood or spiral you into feeling worse.

"One of the most common strategies that both children and adults use is what I call attention refocusing," she explains. "Meaning that they stop paying attention to whatever is making them miserable or unhappy and they start putting their attention elsewhere."

For kids, this may mean finding a specific task to do when they're upset, like helping a parent with chores or finding someone to play with. For adults, it may mean having a conversation with a friend or going for a walk or to see a movie.

Kovacs has found that people with depression or other mental health conditions tend to turn to coping strategies that worsen their mood rather than lift it—for example, thinking about what's bothering them over and over again, or avoiding or hiding their feelings. These strategies can make negative feelings stronger or last longer.

Her research has shown that people often use the same strategies that their parents or older siblings use. It can be hard to change the strategies to manage emotions, because people are not always aware of them. For those with mood problems, talking with a mental health professional can help to identify negative patterns and choose healthier coping skills.

"If you come from a family that has a history of depression, it's incredibly important to try to create an environment for yourself that can maximize the likelihood that you're not going to get into a depression," Kovacs says. That means avoiding things that can trigger depression or anxiety, like not getting enough sleep or exercise.

Keeping Track

Charting your moods can help you figure out what's affecting how you feel. There are even apps that help.

If your mood is making it hard to cope with daily life, talk with your health care provider. If you're having suicidal thoughts, call your doctor immediately or contact the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline at 988 or Link opens in a new windowhttps://988lifeline.org.

Signs and Symptoms of a Mood Disorder

If you've been feeling down or lacked energy for a while, talk with your doctor. Here are some things to look for:

• Continuously feeling sad, anxious, "empty," or irritable
• Feeling guilty, worthless, helpless, or hopeless
• Losing interest or pleasure in hobbies and activities
• Low energy or fatigue
• Moving or talking more slowly
• Feeling restless or having trouble sitting still
• Difficulty concentrating, remembering, or making decisions
• Difficulty sleeping, early-morning awakening, or oversleeping
• Thoughts of death or suicide, or suicide attempts
• Difficulty controlling worries
• Aches or pains, headaches, or digestive problems without a clear physical cause